Adventures in Philly, Wedding Crashing in Richmond. October 5-12, 2015.

I’ve sliced Connecticut east-west so many times, I already had a clear favorite route in mind: pass by the Scituate Reservoir, route 14 into CT, smaller roads (Machine Shop Hill Rd) aiming for CT-16. Once west of Hartford staying quite far south, I could decide how to proceed. It’s my favorite for peaceful wooded roads, but also because friends live right at the intersection in Windham!

Hello, David, and new feline members of the family.
Barbara and David are illustrators. I met them through their son, Larson, from kungfu days in Providence. I dropped in unexpectedly, very glad they were home. I haven’t seen these guys since the bike was red!
David reminded to stop for K. LaMay’s Steamed Cheeseburgers.
Steamy closeup. I got mine with onions and cheese. None of that neon orange stuff here.
They may look like the Maid-Rite sandwiches of Iowa, but they’re unique to central CT.
The custom patty tray holds in all the delicious meat juices as they steam, and it congeals perfectly between bread.

Over steamed cheeseburgers, I chatted up another patron who actually recommended taking I-84 west. Interstate travel isn’t my usual approach, but a bit further west the placement of the interstate blasted through several layers of rock, revealing cool diagonal striations on both sides of the road as you motor along. Bonus, I spotted a patch of green on the map and veered south after Danbury, CT for a gentle climb up to Bear Mountain State Park in New York state.

Slipping back into the saddle was like exhaling after holding my breath, when it had been so long I forgot I’d been holding it in the first place.

Still finding new views. Bear Mountain State Park.

Oddly enough, I think my bike feels better fully packed. Maybe that’s just what I’m most used to, and the way the bike’s broken in now. It’s so comfortable around tiny roads, the kind without painted lines, where I can feel the forest up close. I was glad I caught some of the first leaves changing colors in Connecticut, autumn is glorious in New England. I remembered there were parts of New Jersey that was horse country, instead of the industrial marsh outside of New York City. It was lovely to follow the curves of the Delaware River. The metal grated Frenchtown bridge didn’t even phase me.

I also love that when I’m tired of poking around I can take I-84, and the land opens up in turn with the throttle. Entire hillsides reveal their colors at once, brilliant swatches of reds and oranges, and city skylines rise like slate in the distance. Providence to Philly is practically an old affair now, but I still find new things.

It’s good to be back on the road.

The first overnight was comfortable and low key at what I now dub the Rhodeside Ranch, in Montville, NJ: Jon Rhodes’ quiet home and scooter stash. Fred made a guest appearance (yay!) en route to the Hershey Fall Meet and Not Summit Point 24, the latter of which both he and Rhodes would be attending but I would miss for Davide’s wedding. Nevertheless, we admired his living room Heinkel Tourist (just like in I See By My Outfit!) and the local pub was attended.

The next day, I managed to make what would normally be a 2-3 hour drive into a nearly 5 hour scenic ride. On purpose, because it was beautiful.

I arrived at the Philly home of scooterists Rich and Melissa  just in time to drag them along for Anna Grechishkina‘s presentation.

Anna was back in the US holding a workshop on extended motorcycle travel. Many of her words resonated with me, especially about self doubt, and the pros and cons of solo travel.

I’ve been asked whether I want to ride more internationally, and the answer is a resounding yes. In the back of my mind, North America was always something of a testing ground. It seems ridiculous now that I wanted to make sure that I liked this sort of thing, but at the time I needed the confidence that I could still work from the road without the additional tasks of handling visas, language barriers, importing vehicles, and currency exchange. It’s a 34,488 mile baby step.

What stuck with me from Anna’s presentation wasn’t just the logistics of overland travel (there are plenty of resources now), but the insight to break down the reasons to go. Asking yourself honestly what drives you to travel so extensively – especially solo, on what others may deem an improbable machine – and hearing someone else say that whatever those reasons are they’re valid and acceptable, was hugely affirming. My reasons are different from hers, so my travel will be different. I didn’t realize it, but often this is what I listen for hidden between words in interviews on Adventure Rider Radio.

I’d like the next step to be overseas… but for now, I needed to take care of my bike/home.

I followed Rich to the shop for bike maintenance time. Thanks for lending me a lift, Philadelphia Scooters!
Old exhaust gasket on the right. Farewell, sounding like a tiny Harley.
Since the muffler is off anyway, and Rich pointed me to some high-temp paint…
Muffler is so quiet and black again.
Back at the storefront, meat pies have appeared for lunch?!
Thanks for being awesome, Sean, other Sean, Rich, and Dan! Seriously nicest guys you could find.
Headed out of town, this view of the Art Museum gave me warm fuzzy feelings because…
…it reminds me of my first long trip in 2012. It’s so red!
Back to the present: Pretty bikes outside Quaker City Motor Works, where I’m meeting Kenric.
Time honored tradition of hanging out in the shop and poking around bikes. Kenric and I know a lot of the same people. Also, he wants to take an 80 year old motorcycle across the country. I think some parts are cast iron.
Hi, Kenric! I bought my first scooter from Javaspeed.
You know you have good friends when they let you dye your hair in their bathroom.

I hope Rich and Melissa weren’t too disappointed that half the time I was content to stay in – I had hair to retouch for the wedding, knitting gifts to finish, and pockets of my jacket to repair (thanks to Melissa’s sewing supplies!). Not that I don’t like exploring the Philly, but it was pretty great that they regularly cooked at home and we could just chill.

We did venture out for Wednesday $3.50 burgers and half price drafts at Tattooed Mom!
The upstairs is incredible.
Back at QCMW, I returned to record a podcast with Kenric, aided by sugar high on Wishniak black cherry soda.

Kenric and I had made plans to record a podcast for his blog, with whomever else was in – Leon, and James, a photographer. I’m much more comfortable writing than recording, but it was great hanging out and of course, the best stories came out when the tape wasn’t rolling.

I also meant to test ride that beautiful old Triumph pictured earlier, but I’d barely made it down the driveway when the power went out. Apparently, the headlamp had been left on too long, and the battery was dead. This was actually a bit of a relief to me, because although I told myself repeatedly that the rear brake and shift lever were swapped on this machine, once rolling my first instinct was to tap the wrong lever. Actually, my first instinct after pulling in the clutch was to twist the whole grip up, but that’s another issue.

Defeated by dead battery. Otherwise, what a sweet bike! Perfect sized.
James took much better photos from the afternoon.
My bike has never looked so badass. More of his work at
Back in town, meeting gals from Anna’s workshop for tacos. They’re planning a South American trip, coooooool.
Awesome to meet you, Kristen, Amanda, and Lauren! I said to make superhero poses.
Super sweet old Hondas, fantastic tearing around town with them!
Thanks again, Rich and Melissa! Rally with you next time. Say hi to Fred and Rhodes.

Back in the day when I was shopping for a place to relocate, Philadelphia was near the top of my list. It has a good scooter scene, the city is big enough that there’s plenty to do but still some affordable neighborhoods, it has history, it has good tacos… It’s a little rough in places, but maybe I like that about it.

But Rich and Melissa were rolling out to the NSP scooter party, and I was ready to roll out too. Watching them load the truck reminded me of bygone days working comics and art conventions, but with more camping gear and booze.

Tall grasses and high water in the roads in Delaware.
The road is all mine, so selfish and loving it.
Met Jubal at bird watching tower.
Lots of this scenery.
Hi, colorful frand.
Playing with my clip on iPhone macro lens.
Great chatting with you about travel in the middle of nowhere, Jubal!
I didn’t get to go through this part of Delaware the first time south, so here we are…
Originally, an electric football table was repurposed for continuous hopping.
Our tour guide assured us it hadn’t been repurposed for other recreational uses, to his knowledge. Did I mention this was an adult tour?
Giant robo arm for stacking kegs!
It’s a much bigger operation than I thought. The average ABV of all their beer is a powerful 9%…average. Strong and creative beverages, adult tours, my kind of place.
Bulletproof wood for aging Palo Santo Marron. It’s deceptively heavy.
Tasty wine-beer for the tent.

I stashed as many bottles as I could carry onboard (hooray for the Pelican!), which was fortunate because stop-and-go traffic at the casino hotel vacation complexes in Ocean City, MD left me exhausted. By Virginia I caved at one of those campgrounds that touts itself as ‘family friendly’ – that is to say, overpriced and full of screaming children who have been given too much sugar by their parents, who themselves have checked out behind a growing pile of cheap beer cans. At least I didn’t care if I made noise too, and passed the evening cracking into my Sixty-One, texting Fred whenever the winds of cell service blew my way, and playing a solo tent concert in my underwear; my ukulele cover of The Road could use some work.

I woke early the next morning to ride the remaining 149 miles to Richmond, crossing the fantastically long and flat Chesapeake Bay Bridge Tunnel (it’s like riding on the water, with wind roaring in my ears and seagull road-sky-kill to dodge!), arriving chilled but in time for Davide and Emmy’s wedding ceremony.

Wedding time in Richmond, VA! Accepting donations to the Davide and Emmy cause.
Can you believe this guy is getting married? Also, the 7 Hills club trailer has appeared, scooter trash is here.
Party dress #1, ready.

I’d no sooner parked my bike in Donna’s garage than I was whisked into the excited fray of wedding-prep. Also, my plus one arrived!

Matt is down from Brooklyn.

In weddings past, Matt had become established as my go-to plus one. He would invite me to the weddings of his friends that I didn’t know and I would party and get dress up drunk, and in return I invited him to the weddings of my friends that he didn’t know, to party and get dress up drunk.

Charlie inspects the first of many, many bottles of Prosecco. Davide is Italian, after all.
Instead of cake, Davide and Emmy went with pies, by Proper Pie Co.
Cute scootery details, delicious pies.
Beautiful venue in an old bank. We turned the vault into the bar.
Aww. Officiated by the amazing Chelsea, of Scoot Richmond.
I don’t know about you but this table is ready for pie.
Dancing and incriminating photos happened. The true purpose of weddings.

I swear something about two-wheeled travel, especially when it’s chilly out, accelerates post-ride uptake of alcohol into the bloodstream. I suppose it could also be the absent minded sipping of Prosecco all afternoon while helping to set up. When all the ceremony and dancing was done, I used my last shred of energy to check the time from bed: it was barely 11pm.

Davide’s parents try my Vespa.

The following days included scooting Matt to the bus station, cleaning up a regrettably exploded bottle of Noble Rot in my Pelican (dammit, not as vibration-proof as I hoped), and hanging out with other 7 Hills folk at Hardywood Park Craft Brewery. Now that wedding stress was past and I was in his locale, Davide suggested one more buddy ride for the season. This time, I followed him for the ride.

Beemer and Vespa rides again! Like Bandcamps and Amerivespas past.
Hollywood and Riverview Cemetery, Confederate memorials.
We took the pretty roads south of the James River, to the ferry crossing.
The weather warmed and turned beautiful while waiting for the Jamestown Ferry.
The Italian points out pieces of U.S. history to the American who didn’t grow up here.
No ride is complete without pulled pork. Pierce’s Pitt Bar-B-Que in Williamsburg, VA.
Ketchup artist. Okay, now we can hop on VA-5 back into town.

There was one more piece of Richmond life Davide wanted to share with me. His circle of friends call it Family Dinner: a Monday night habit of picking one of their homes to meet and cook and eat a big meal together. This Monday would be extra fancy because Davide’s family was in town from Italy for the wedding.

As someone who dines solo the bulk of the time and rarely has immediate family nearby, this act of adopted-big-family warmed my heart. Also, it warmed my belly, with pitchers of negroni and this pan of meat that’s been marinating and slow cooking for two days.

Donna is kitchen master here.
If you could smell this photo, you’d understand why it took everything in me not to immediately dig in.
Oh, my gourd, the table settings.
The fanciest Family Dinner.
Thanks for the ride to the airport, and congratulations!

I’ll be returning to Richmond later, but next stop is San Francisco, CA!

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